Sexual dimorphism is a cissexist conspiracy! >:-(

pomeranianprivilege:

liberal feminisms acceptance of who is a feminist involves pornographers, rapists, pedophiles, traffickers, abusers, pimps, sadists and pretty much any misogynist male but women who are against those men? those women are the real bad guys and are not real feminists and god forbid you even breathe the same air as them

ghostofcommunism:

color-me-damned:

emorenita:

and I always encounter queer women who are all like “pussy power!” and “ew, dicks” loud and proud who don’t consider themselves terfs and it fucks with my mind

like wtf are you then

they could possibly just be women who aren’t into dick

There is a difference between dude dick and girl dick. Trans women and AMAB nb folks don’t handle their genitalia the same way dudes handle their genitalia. Conflating the two is transmisogynistic.

There is a difference between dude dick and girl dick.

Note how the only difference is the handling - NOT something physical.

This will make things different for lesbians. Of couuuuurse.

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garblefart:

okay so the only sexualities i accept are pansexual, demisexual, and asexual (and things like that)

i really dont like people who completely limit themselves to one or two genders (monosexuals and bisexuals) i mean sure you can have a preference but dont completely shut it down like that

notice that the common themes between the sexualities i accept is that its the AMOUNT of sexuality, not the limit:

  • pan: hella sexual
  • demi: sometimes sexual
  • ace: nah

cause the way i like thinking of gender is that its like a character creation screen with two presets; most people are given or pick one of the two presets but theres a billion options to change and even if youre just wiggling around the sliders randomly youve still got an entirely unique gender and thats a gender that people with limited sexualities just dont get

idk i just really dont like monosexuals or bisexuals, imo they tend to be transphobic (pretending that males always have dicks and females always have vaginas) and binarist (completely shutting out nonbinary people by definition) and i just dont like them

i mean feel free to call yourself bisexual around people who dont understand sexualities that well but dont do it online and stuff

i really dont like people who completely limit themselves to one or two genders.

idk i just really dont like monosexuals or bisexuals

feel free to call yourself bisexual around people who dont understand sexualities that well

Another homophobic gendershit.
What a suprise (not).

Note how they equate gender to personality.

You don’t have to be pretty like her. You can be pretty like you.
One of the most freeing things I have ever heard (via firecannotkillabadwolf)

nextyearsgirl:

Misogyny is not the “hatred of feminine attributes and femininity,” feminine attributes and femininity are the fucking primary tools of misogyny.

problackgirl:

we’ve taught girls to romanticise nearly everything a boy does. when i was younger i thought it was cute that boys chased the girl even after she said no. i loved it when after a girl moved away from a kiss, the guy would pull her back and force it on. i thought a guy saying ‘i won’t take a no for an answer’ was passionate and romantic. we’re literally always teaching girls to romanticise abusive traits.

Are the indigenous cultures with nonbinary concepts of gender cults too? Was the early Hebrew six-gender system a cult? How deeply are you willing to entrench yourself in that idea?

appropriately-inappropriate:

pixienightmaregoddess:

witchbornwitch:

radicalmayhem:

it’s so funny when genderists come at me with “but other cultures have non-binary gender systems tooooo!”

you’re proving my point - gender is socially constructed. it exists only within the context of the culture that creates it. there is no such thing as an inherent gender. 

the modern genderist movement is 100% a cult. aggressive recruiting, meaningless jargon, isolation of members, violence towards non-members, the leaders are seen as infallible and members will do anything to justify the actions of the leaders, love-bombing of new members, et cetera, et cetera.

Furthermore, if white people would stop using us indigenous or non-Western/non-White folk as talking points when it’s convenient for your agenda that would be real super.

Plus the Hebrew “six-genders” were really just categorizations for intersex conditions - not genders at all.

AND all those cultures that had “third genders” all have one thing in common:

They were EXTREMELY sex-role segregated. That is to say, gender roles were sexually based and frequently exclusive. Women did “This”, men did “That”, and if you were a female that did “That”, then you weren’t a Woman (but you also weren’t male), so you were Officially In-Between.

If you look at the cultures that originated the Third Genders, they are invariably sex-segregated.

Ancient Hebrew? Yep.
India? Check.
First Nations? Also.

Curiously, in more egalitarian First Nations cultures, like the Iroquois or the Six Nations, Third Genders are rarely documented, whereas in cultures like the Zuni, Oglala Lakota, etc, where the sex roles are much more strictly enforced, their prevalence is higher.

Not coincidentally, “third gender” or trans individuals are also common in Western culture, which again, corroborates the idea of the “third gender” arising in situations where sex roles are more strictly enforced.

I’m so ashamed that bisexuals treat lesbians like dirt

get-thee-to-a-shrubbery:

never-obey:

I always feel the need to apologize. But sadly this doesn’t help.

There is a reason I avoid nearly every bi blog on tumblr. This is not a community I want to be part of.

Hey

I’m sorry for those bisexuals who have treated you like shit

However

Please keep in mind that bisexuals are almost never once acknowledged in media. Keep in mind that bisexuals experience a whole lot of shit, and not just from straight people.

We’re constantly told, even by members of the LGBT community that we don’t exist, or we’re “traitors.” Please don’t add to our pile of shit just because you’ve had some bad experiences on tumblr.

I’m bisexual myself. I know that biphobia exists but i also know how they treat lesbians. It’s horrible. Also it’s not just tumblr. Did you read the newest bullshit from “curve magazine” written by a bi woman?

pixiepienix:

farxistmeminism:

so the pres of a feminist org that i’m in is srsly offended that some people in the group r openly “man-haters” because it creates an “unwelcoming atmosphere.” 

what kind of inclusive feminist space are we creating if we shun women who have been abused, hurt, or exploited by men 2 the point of hating them? 

men: must feel welcome

women: only welcome if they also make men feel welcome

A+ feminist organisation there gee

plansfornigel:

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Hello I'm a bisexual and I'd like to say that I do not hate or treat lesbians badly, I love them as I love any other person. So stay positive friend, ignore the few assholes, most of us are not like that, you're not on your own :)

Thanks for the message ^^. But you know for me it’s much easier to ignore the assholes than it’s for lesbians.

I’m so ashamed that bisexuals treat lesbians like dirt

I always feel the need to apologize. But sadly this doesn’t help.

There is a reason I avoid nearly every bi blog on tumblr. This is not a community I want to be part of.

buckythirteen:

"dont fight hate with hate" so u admit, u hate us?

"dont fight fire with fire" so u admit, u set the fire?

There is a reason why heterosexual people are obsessed with asking similar-sex couples, “So, who’s the man?” They want to know who fucks and who, as it were, is fucked. Because sex is power – specifically, the exercise of male power upon women – then any time power is exercised, it invokes the spectre of male and female roles. When sex is defined by power, determine who has the power in the fuck and who does not, or who gains social status in the fuck and who loses it, and you will discover who must compulsorily be fucked by whom.
The Ethical Prude: Imagining An Authentic Sex-Negative Feminism (via commiekinkshamer)