Sexual dimorphism is a cissexist conspiracy! >:-(
sparkle-martian:

tommyxvx:

Splendid.

fuck. yes.

sparkle-martian:

tommyxvx:

Splendid.

fuck. yes.

letyourselfbeworthy:

poetic:

I can admire a female body without being sexually attracted to it. A man can admire a male body without being sexually attracted to it. When will people get this?

there. this. thank you.

s0ft-h0m0:

You can’t just take the way men and women relate to each other in het relationships and try to transpose that over relationships between lesbians. That’s not how it works. Butches aren’t misogynistic, aggressive, overbearing, etc. Femmes aren’t submissive, docile, meek, helpless, dependent, etc. Stop putting your het shit on lesbians. Butches do not oppress femmes.

(Also, not every lesbian sees herself as butch or femme).

alyssmirari:

My skin remains smooth even with hair on it. Growing hair on your body doesn’t mean you’re going to suddenly start developing rough, reptilian skin. 

zombooyah2thesequel:

Mad Max: Fury Road (X)

Growth is painful. Change is painful.But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.
Mandy Hale (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

isohels:

Why is body hair only unhygienic when its on a woman’s body?

could you please explain what are the issues with queer theory? I'm not completely sure what it is but it sounds like bullshit
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gaydiationpoisoning:

That was a good laugh. I needed it. I feel like no one knows exactly what queer theory is because it’s so individualistic it can be used to mean or to justify anything, but basically:

Queer theory is a post-structuralist response to feminism (esp. second-wave feminism, I think?) that completely defies material analysis. Queer theorists are responsible for much of identify-as-you-feel politics - politics which discourage class-based analysis of structural inequality, and instead encourage the individual to focus on what the concept of “queer” means to them, which allows 100% heterosexual people to co-opt the concept if they want. Everyone wants to defy normality, right; everyone wants to approximate homosexuality, but no one actually wants to be gay. As a consequence of its identity politics, queer theory champions gender a vast, indescribable, immutable trait, and does not allow room for critical analysis of the oppressive qualities, or even discussions of the origins and nature of, gender. 

In addition to being ineffectual, queer theory is also pretty homophobic in practice. It is to queer theory that we owe the championing “nonbinary” sexuality (e.g. derision of gays/lesbians as “monosexual” because we have the audacity to be attracted to only one sex), and we probably owe concepts like “pansexual” to queer theory as well. The latter concept has even been used to deride bisexual people for not being gender-inclusive enough, or something. 

On a more personal note, I believe that queer theory is the enemy of critical analysis for gay men. Gay men have a lot of experiences that would predispose them to radical analysis, but queer theory’s overwhelming popularity with gay men has made it difficult for gay men to see themselves as members of an oppressed class with shared class history; instead, it’s all about the Self, what the individual gay man wants, and gay men have impressive historical amnesia and no tools to analyze the harms they do to each other or the ways they could seek their own liberation.

radfemphantom:

There have been many girls who have personally asked me to teach them what radical feminism is about because it makes SENSE and is comforting to them, while also stating that they’re afraid of “coming out” as a radfem because people will harass, insult and send triggering hatemail and threats to them (which was also true for many of us when we first got ourselves invested in radical feminism) and if that doesn’t tell you about the entitlement and terror tactics of liberal feminism/transactivists then I don’t know what will. Even if radical feminism was ultimately ~*wrong*~, the fact they’re not even allowed to explore their own political thoughts and state their distaste for third wave feminism without being targets of violence is disgusting and enfuriating.

Trans actvists don’t allow any other viewpoint. Either you agree 100% with their bullshit or you face the consequences - even if you don’t belong to their community.

lovemeproper:

lesbianwarfare:

metal-thimble:

wofexx-on-fire:

mariahoenenevigglad:

I got the exact same as you…

Here is our best guess at who you are:

1. You are male.

2. You are still a teenager, but won’t be one for very much longer. 

3. You’re in college and are already worried about finding the perfect job that will be both fulfilling and will pay well. Your future worries you more than you’d like to admit.

4. You have beautiful, silky brown hair and big eyes. 

5. You know that if you’d only believe in yourself more, things would be much easier for you. Yet you still doubt your instincts more than you should, instead of trusting them every time.

Funny, they’re pretty much all correct except the first two.

1. You are male.
2. You are currently in your mid fifties, still working hard and enjoying every minute of it.
3. You are starting to go bald, but you don’t care about it as much as you thought you would when you were younger. You still have your good looks, your gray eyes and your sense of humor.
4. You have a beautiful loving family, great life-long friends, even the doctor is happy with your annual check up!
5. Things are generally good, and you just wish they’ll stay that way for much, much longer.

oh me too me too

Here is our best guess at who you are:
1. You are female.
2. You are currently in your mid thirties.
3. You have a great job that you don’t necessarily appreciate as much as you should. You do, however, appreciate the great life partner that you have and your caring friends.
4. You have short blonde hair, gray eyes and a naturally tan skin tone.
5. You have 2 kids. Currently thinking whether or not to have a third one.

1. You are male.
2. You are in currently in your mid 30’s.
3. You are married and just became a parent. You are experiencing exciting days, and more are on their way, but through it all you remain strong, loving and deeply caring.
4. You have short hair - partly gray, brown eyes and a fit body.
5. You decided long ago that your kids must have a better childhood than the one you had. You know you’ll do anything to make sure of that.

Oh god I’m really a man! I’m trans!

dykebunny:

i’ve had so many lesbians come to me and ask for advice about what to do with trans women who threatened to rape them when they refused their sexual advances and yet people accused them of being a transphobe instead of protecting them.  Young lesbians constantly seek for a lesbian safe space so they can fucking breathe and not being shitted on for once. Lesbians get corrective raped and gets thrown under the bus by bihet women for the sake of men. We literally have to risk our safety and lives when we ask for a space to talk specifically about female anatomy and centralise female issues. We get told we don’t own our sexuality yet people wear our sexuality and culture like clothes and throw it off when they get sick of it, but you fuckers still have the nerve to diminish us by calling us terfs and tell us we’re the ones who should be ashamed while you prioritise males over us, mock and treat us like a fucking joke? Fuck you. 

elfyourmother:

i am seriously not exaggerating or joking when I say the #1 sign of an abusive person is how they respond to an attempt to assert boundaries

i’m not a psychologist but i got my degree from the school of hard knocks ok and that is really the common denominator

don’t trust anyone who tries to argue with your need for them

Trans ally wisdom of the day

Trans woman penises may look similar to men penises, but they are not the same at all; they are female penises, women penises, and they consequentially become completely divorced from maleness. (As a side note; to this date, never has it been reported a sexual assault perpetrated by a trans woman. Think about that).

ibt-w:

And why haven’t men organised to wear feminine clothing? Could it be because feminine clothing is made to be restrictive, objectifying and aesthetically pleasing without practicality ? Women have fought to wear men’s clothing because men’s clothing is suitable for human beings. Women’s…

oldkikimora:

appropriately-inappropriate:

veganbutt:

never-obey:

lovershappiness:

princess-passion-flower:

My lesbian co-worker and gay co-worker are really transphobic. They said they wouldnt date someone trans even if post op. Called that “freaky shit.”

I just

Most people choose who they date, get over it.
We don’t say that…

Why in the 7 hells are the particular specific technicalities of genitals a huge deal for y’all like????

Well, there’s this thing called a “sexual orientation”. Most of us have one, you know?

And sometimes, in some people, this sexual orientation can be pretty strict. Those people are called “homosexuals”, which means they’re exclusively attracted to their own sex.

As in this case.

Sex isn’t gender, and it doesn’t rely on gender. It’s based on biological sex, our sexual organs.

But it’s funny you should frame it like this. I heard this exact comment three weeks ago during Pride, when a straight man asked me if I’d ever considered fucking a man, and how would I ever know if I hadn’t tried, and wasn’t it discriminatory /anyways/ that I wouldn’t fuck him?

Weird, how your rhetoric and his line up so perfectly. But of course, he was a homophobic, lesbophobic entitled asshole, and you’re nothing of the sort.

Right?

What about we have a fucking right to decide not to be close to certain persons. Especially if those persons belong to a group of people who are commonly known for trying to find ways to get around your NO.

What is so difficult with accepting a NO?

Because it’s all about them. Their needs, their identity, their feelings, their fantasies. You are merely a tool for satisfaction.

That’s the reason why the gender brigade and their supportes get so angry if people refuse you date/have sex with them. How dare you to refuse? How dare you not to trust their words. How dare you not to play by their rules?

But too bad not everyone buys into their fucked up logic. And this makes them really angry.